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Compassion is in our nature #1000SPEAK

The blog-o-sphere is buzzing today on one theme. One Thousand Voices Blogging for Compassion. #1000SPEAK

How can I not be a part of it? Compassion is in our nature, we practise it daily without realising it.


I could recall an incident that happened four years ago. I was coming out of my office for having my lunch, where I found this old woman selling rose plants at half past one in the afternoon. It was too sunny, still this woman was shouting hard to attract the people. Only a few did, but they too did not buy any, rest of them were busy smoking and flirting. I had my lunch at the Andhra Restaurant. On the way back to office, she called me saying, “beta a Gulaba ka phula kareedlo” I flashed a smile and hurried back to office as I had a team meeting in the next ten minutes.

The next one and half an hour was terrible. In terms of our team performance as well as my heart was feeling bad for ignoring her. I went out again. This time, in tears, she was pleading the people to buy the rose plants. I flashed a smile again, enquired the price of the plant and bought one. It made her happy! She blessed me to livelong for hundred years. It made my day.

The next day I saw her at the same place, she was tired, still she was selling the plants. I walked up to her. “Daddima… Why are you working so hard at this age?” She narrated her story. She was from a poor family. Her son and daughter-in-law passed away in an accident, when a lorry lost its control and hit the couple while walking on the road. Her one and only granddaughter is studying in third standard, to take care of her, she started selling these plants.

I offered her a thousand rupee note to help her. She smiled, then politely declined saying that she will work hard to earn money, not by alms. I saluted her, wished her good luck, and went to office. On my way an idea struck me – to create a small banner-saying gift your loved ones a rose plant this Valentine’s Day, which was ten days away – I did the same.

Guess what… the trick worked. She sold almost all her stock in two days. She earned a good profit that helped her to set up a roadside IDLI (Rice Cake) shop. It made her and her granddaughter happy. And, I visited their shop regularly to do my part. They led a happy life.


An old man was running a teashop in his cycle next to my home. I used to drink tea from his shop every morning. One day, when he was offering the tea to his customer, he missed the balance, the cycle went down, and the entire tea was spilled on the road. He literally cried. I could not see him cry like that. I gave him a thousand rupee note to make it up for the day. He thanked me and promised to offer free tea to me until his last breathe. I was so touched by his act. I fondly call him “Grandpa”.


Another incident happened on one fine morning, when I was so irritated after attending an escalation call. I could not breathe properly, I wanted to go out and try a cigarette. When I came out of my home, a small boy delivered the newspaper at my doorstep.

“Good morning bhaiya!” He greeted with a warm smile.

I greeted him back and enquired about his studies. He narrated his story. That he is an orphan, studying in a Government Higher Secondary School. He delivers newspaper for earning money. He also does many other small works for a living. I was astonished to hear his full story. I bought him a cup of tea for uplifting my mood. And from that day, I had tea with him every morning, when I was in Bangalore.

I’m sure, compassion, is in our nature. I have so many stories to tell, I will in my future posts. For now, here is a small poem scribbled by me.

Little drops of water,
Lonely grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the vast landscape,
Picturesque, peaceful and poetic!

Little deeds of compassion,
Small shares of joy,
Make the world heaven,
And filled with happiness,
Soulful, beautiful and wonderful!

Little notes on kindness,
Group of passionate bloggers,
Make the world read,
The words of compassion,
Meaningful, joyful and powerful!



Always Keep Smiling!

I am writing this post for 1000 Voices of Compassion. Alongside a One Thousand Voices Blogging for Compassion. Let all the people read good, feel good, and be good! #1000SPEAK. Visit here to read other participants.


Bedtime Rituals

This post won 'Indi Happy Hours Voucher' in Bedtime Rituals campaign organized by IndiBlogger in association with Pampers Baby-Dry Pants.

Making the little one to sleep is a special art followed by every mom in a unique way to her child. Every night when we come to bed after wrapping up the days’ work, filled with tiredness, my little girl will start playing with her brother, my elder son. They are the perfect partners in crime and they will not allow anyone of us to sleep until early morning. We had many sleepless nights like that, but my hubby and I enjoyed it a lot.

There is a secret way to put her to sleep first, then my hyperactive elder son, and finally we go to bed. What I do is to make her feel sleepy by feeding her giving a warm hug. Once her tummy is full, I will be singing soft melodious lullabies, as she loves listening to them. Those lullabies helps her to enter into sleep mode, and finally to sleep.

After struggling so much to make her sleep, it last only for a few hours. Yes, mostly after 3 hours of sleep, she always feel restless, as her wet diapers irritates her a lot. In half sleep, I change her wet diapers, and we have to start all over again, almost, like a new beginning to make her sleep. I had the same issue with my elder son too, but somehow with my help of my mom, I was able to manage it easily.

On a fine day one of my friends visited my place, when I shared my experience with her, she suggested me to use Pampers Baby-Dry Pants for my girl for a peaceful sleep. Without any second thoughts, I bought one for her. We made her wear the same, fed her, sang the sweetest lullabies taught by my mother, and made her sleep. We were really tensed thinking what could happen if it reacts the other way for her. My hubby and I, along with my elder son lay down on bed without making any noise, offering prayer to God that things should go well.

Guess what, we experienced the real magic… Yes, she had a peaceful sleep throughout night. The pant style Diaper made life easy to change the solid diapers without disturbing my girl from sleep. Pampers baby-dry pants helped my little one and myself to have a super fresh morning the next day.

I am sure if we use Pampers baby-dry pants, not only my little one sleep peacefully, but as a family, we enjoy the peaceful sleep the entire night. Many thanks to Pampers for such a wonderful product. It is actually a boon for all families with little ones.


And I am happy to share the Bedtime Rituals.


Happy Parenting!

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I made my choice to be #BefikarUmarBhar

This post won 'Indi Happy Hours Voucher' in #BefikarUmarBhar campaign organized by IndiBlogger in association with Lifesurance Whole Life Savings Insurance plan.

“Dream big and chase your dreams. Take no shortcuts. One day you will achieve it.” I had heard these words more than a thousand times during my school days. Followed those words like a mantra, and dreamt big, in fact bigger. It was easy. The path to purse them was not. So many constraints to move ahead, so many reasons to hold back, I fought with them to march toward my dreams.

The Top 5 dreams:

1. Home Sweet Home – the gift to my parents:
Maybe, I was five or six, when this happened. I asked my Mom what she wanted from me when I grew up. She smiled first, then her eyes became moist, and she said, “Build a home for us.” I made those words my dream and queue it second in my priority list.

2. Range Rover – The car of my dreams:
When I was eighteen, I first saw this car in an English Movie. The hero of the movie was driving it on the roads of Tokyo. I admired it silently. Being a big car lover, I quickly found the brand and model name of the car. Range Rover.

When I went to London, I had a chance to drive it on a highway. I absolutely enjoyed the experience. I wanted to enjoy more, so I made it my dream, and queue it third in my priority list.

3. EURO Trip – the most awaited trip:
It all started when I first saw a song “Poovukkul Olinthu Irukkum” from the movie “Jeans” directed by Ace Director Shankar. The song featured the Seven Wonders of the World. Out of the seven, Eiffel Tower and Leaning Tower of Pisa, made me to dream about France and Italy. After watching the movie Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, the wish got intensified, and the thought of EURO Trip excited me a lot. I made it my dream and queue it fourth in my priority list.

4. Moon – A paid visit:
My mom used to feed me singing a Tamil Rhyme “Nila Nila Odi Vaa” at nights. It made me wonder, why it never happened. Why the moon never came to me? It was a difficult question to answer for my mom. In my school days, when I first heard about Neil Armstrong, I wanted to visit the moon badly. But how was the big question. I never wanted to be a scientist, but I wanted to visit the moon. I found a costly solution for it before two years – Space Tourism. I made it my dream and queue it fifth in my priority list.

5. Happiness – Can it be bought?
From day one of my life till date, my mom used to tell me one only thing – “Always Keep Smiling. It is not so easy, but you can be happy, if you plan your life, and live your life as per the plan.”

I followed her words. I set myself realistic goals, and worked hard to pursue them. One of them is having a good insurance plan. IDBI FEDERAL: Lifesurance Whole Life Savings Insurance plan is one of the best plans that provides life cover continues even after the premiums are paid. It keeps everyone in my family happy and allows me to continue to enjoy the life, just the way I had planned!

So, I made my choice to be #BefikarUmarBhar


Always Keep Smiling!

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Valentine Week ♥ Promise Day ♥ February 11

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, turn around.
Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, touch the ground.
Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, go upstairs.
Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, say your prayers.
Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, turn off the light.
Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, say goodnight.

You must have done more than this. If you have then give yourself a hi-fi, you deserve it totally.

I am a good teddy bear. As I said yesterday, I reciprocated hundred times more than the actuals. What else she want!

The fifth day in the Valentine Week is Promise Day. On this day, promise to your love that you will be the reason to believe in love until the last breathe. Love comes with a lot of promises and commitments. Make sure you promise and follow them, but at any case, do not do any fake promise. Promises cost a lot.

My promise to her is simple. “I’m all yours and you are always mine – ever and forever!” She promised the same. We are a happy couple!


the promise we made on our special day


If you enjoy reading this post, come back tomorrow for more. Have a good day!

♥ Celebrate Love ♥
♥ Sarav Vidhya ♥

Valentine Week ♥ Teddy Day ♥ February 10

How did the day go? Had your chocolates? Was it tasty?

If the answer is “YES”, great then!

I am a mad lover of chocolates and ice creams. I had them both after my dinner. Overall, it was a great day!

I am done with my plan for Teddy Day. Before I reveal that let me tell you what exactly Teddy Day is.

As the name suggest, it is time for you to send teddy bears to your love or crush. Ladies like to hug them a lot, so gift a soft toy. The more the softer, the better the love. Gifts ceramic or other teddy bears to Gents, they love seeing their love’s special gift. Make sure the Teddy Bear is of a good size, colour and material. It may not be the costliest one, but good enough to hug them close.

Vidhya presented a Teddy Bear (as in the pic below) last year. I liked it a lot. It was an awesome day. I have gifted different types of toys to her. This year, I am planning to gift a soft toy to her. It may not look like a teddy bear, but she can hug and kiss round the clock. The best feature of the toy is it reciprocates hundred times more the actuals.


clicked by me using my canon baby


If you enjoy reading this post, come back tomorrow for more. Have a good day!

♥ Celebrate Love ♥
♥ Sarav Vidhya ♥

Valentine Week ♥ Chocolate Day ♥ February 9

“Men do cry!”

It so happened today, when my friend Rakesh WhatsApp’ed me. ‘Gone bankrupt! Bought a diamond necklace for my wife. You know kada… how it is. Need fifty thousand rupees.’

‘Money sent buoy

‘You are an angel buddy. Got heart attack on seeing the Gold Price today. Must have got one before for her. Missed it because of the dreadful word Deadline. Btw who found this Propose Day?’

‘God knows who!’

For the next few minutes I was thinking of a question, “Why such a costly gift? What is the connection between cost and love?”

The answer isn’t simple. Anyway, let me not talk about it.

The third day in the Valentine Week is Chocolate Day. On this day, you can gift the best or your partner’s favourite chocolate. Maybe you could buy a chocolate box too. Because the sweetness in the chocolate will surely enhance the closeness in your relationship. Moreover, it can turn romantic, if both of you are chocolate lovers.

Make sure you buy a decent size chocolate. It may not be the costliest one, but should be good enough to sweep your love off the floor. If you want to be romantic, gift pack the chocolate or the chocolate box, light a single candle and arrange for a surprise. Once your love opens the chocolate, have it right away. The rest could be magic!


This is what I did last year. And it turned out to be a perfect Chocolate Date with less of chocolates and more of us.


chocolates of different sizes and brands gift packed in the color of love


This image is designed especially for the Valentine Week. Make it yours! If you enjoy reading this post, come back tomorrow for more. Have a good day!

♥ Celebrate Love ♥
♥ Sarav Vidhya ♥

The Dream

This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 51; the fifty-first edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we decide and we write. In association with Red Ink Publishers and "Curse Of The Red Soil" by Durgesh Shastri. To be part of the next edition, visit and start following Blog-a-Ton.

It is a dream come true moment, especially for me. Usually, I keep it short and simple, but not this time, as I want to thank a few people for supporting me always. I request each one of you to please bear with me.

Before announcing the results, I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for making our dream come true. The dream of having 100 entrants in a single edition. I am glad it came true, and that too, in this special occasion – Blog-a-Ton’s Centennial Edition and my 75th Edition as Marshal – what else I could have asked for! #BlogATon100

I would like to express my gratitude to Blog-a-Ton Founder Marshal Vipul Grover, for creating the grand platform, for trusting me, and requesting me to Marshal it along with Leo. And, how would I, thank Leo for all his help. Without his support, it would have been really tough to Marshal Blog-a-Ton alone.

...the
journey
so far...
On 5th July 2009, Blog-a-Ton was born, a misnomer of the word Blogathon and on 1st August 2009, our first edition was hosted by our Marshal Vipul Grover and after 17 editions, he willingly took a break. Our Ravan hosted once after which, Leo and I took the responsibility on our shoulders to march forward towards our dream. I am a happy man today. Some of our BATOM’s (including myself) are now published authors, and we can proudly say that Blog-a-Ton helped us a lot! Some write because of BAT, some breathe for BAT, and that is what Blog-a-Ton is all about! Celebrate Writing! Keep writing for BAT!

Coming to the results, here is the list of participants and the cheers they garnered. I am happy to be one of them. Thank you so much for voting me.

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“Get up, Sweetheart. The time is 06:30 AM.” She whispered in my ears.

I woke up with a start. I cleared my vision and looked around for my laptop. It was lying on the computer table next to my bed. "Was it a dream?" I asked to myself.

She spoke in a high tone, “You literally spoke each word loudly. Enough dreaming about Blog-a-Ton. 100 participants, 100th Edition? It can happen only in dreams, but the reality is… it is tough to find 100 passionate writers.”

I kept mum. She got irritated and left the room to prepare coffee for me. I got up to freshen up. After fifteen minutes, I went to our living room.

She was there waiting for me with the coffee. I sat on the couch. Sipping the coffee I said, “It’ll happen. I’m sure I will be hosting the 100th Edition.” She interrupted and said, “I am sure you will host the 100th Edition, but I doubt if there will be 100 passionate participants participating in that.”

“I’m sure of that too.” I said looking into her eyes.

“100 writers writing on the same topic in a single day. That is highly impossible unless you announce prizes. Moreover, your hard work go waste each time. You spend half-an-hour on an average every week for Blog-a-Ton and two-three hours on the result days, but the result is… You know it better!”

“But… I’m happy!"

She did not say a word after that because she knew my dream. I am very sure that my dream will come true one day and I am eagerly waiting for that day. The Marshal’s dream!

The fellow Blog-a-Tonics who took part in this Blog-a-Ton and links to their respective posts can be checked here. To be part of the next edition, start following Blog-a-Ton and Subscribe to Blog-a-Ton Reminders. Participation Count: 34

Valentine Week ♥ Propose Day ♥ February 8

FLASH NEWS: Indians made a new world record by selling more than 100,000,000 roses in less than 24 hours. Valentine’s Week fever?

Whatever I wrote may not be correct numbers, but I heard from my friends living in India that most of the flower shops reported that the flowers were sold out in the morning itself. That’s great news!

There is a flipside to each coin.” That I second. On the other side, roses price were hiked just because it is Valentine Week. It is a Perfect Marketing Strategy, but is it acceptable? I do not wish to comment on that, but it is certainly a question to ponder!

The second day in the Valentine Week is Propose Day. On this day, you can propose your love without any fear of rejection. It is your right to express your feelings, propose your love, and propose marriage to your partner. Do not shy away. Just go down on one knee and speak from your heart. I am sure your life will be happy thereafter.

Make sure you choose a nice place for your proposal. A ring is must! If possible, arrange a photographer to capture those precious moments, or arrange for a camera and a tripod. I am saying this because in the recent past, I read an article where a girl penned down her expectation on Proposal Day – “How I want to be proposed?” The first point was “When my future husband proposes me, I want him to arrange for a photographer, and capture my blushes. I want to frame it for a lifetime.

And, I wonder, will we experience a hike in Diamond and Gold Prices?

Keep your proposal sweet and simple!

I, being a person who loves capturing moments through my lens, captured those precious moments using my camera and tripod. Below are the few snaps I clicked on my precious days.


Clicked at Poovar Island, Kerala.


Clicked at Lubeck Beach, Germany.

Vidhya and I printed these photographs and hanged them on our bedroom walls along with the poems I wrote for her. Quite romantic, I would say. I will post a snap of our bedroom on Valentine’s Day!


This image is designed especially for the Valentine Week. Make it yours! If you enjoy reading this post, come back tomorrow for more. Have a good day!

♥ Celebrate Love ♥
♥ Sarav Vidhya ♥

Valentine Week ♥ Rose Day ♥ February 7

Love. Love is beautiful. Love makes life beautiful. This week, being the Valentine Week, I’ll be writing daily describing the day, dos and don’ts, and share some ideas.

Valentine’s Day is the Day of Love. A special day in every one’s life. The very thought of it excites me. It cannot be said in words, it has to be felt within. I am glad I found my special one – someone special – my Vidhya. This is our third Valentine’s Day and I have sent a special invite to her (Watch the video on Close up Site). I will write more about it in the coming days.

Coming back to the topic, from Valentine’s Day to Valentine’s week, is it a commercializing idea?

If I am not wrong, in my school days, my friends proposed their love on Valentine’s Day without any fear of rejection, and made it special buying small gifts. Even if it is small celebration, it will be between the couple. The trend has changed now. I see a lot of videos on different kind of proposals and even I read a lot about special Valentine’s proposal ideas. Most of them are very different to what it was ten years before. I like the change. Though it is commercialized to an extent, still it is good to Celebrate Love. I am embedding couple of videos I enjoyed watching on Close up Website.




Hope you enjoyed watching the video like I did. It is good to celebrate Valentine Week, if possible Valentine Year too :)

Valentine Week starts with a Rose Day. On this day, lovers greet each other with ever-beautiful red roses and go out on a date. Or you could send a card and a rose to your secret love. If you are in a live-in relationship or married, then wake up early in the morning, buy a fresh rose, and place it on the pillow next to your love. Play some pleasant music on a low volume, open the window curtains, wait until your love wake up and enjoy the surprise. If you want to freeze the moments, place a camera to record the precious moments of life.


This image is designed especially for the Valentine Week. Make it yours! If you enjoy reading this post, come back tomorrow for more. Have a good day!

♥ Sarav Vidhya ♥

Second Chance

What would I do if given a Second Chance?

I have a long list of things to do, I have been putting off them for the future, and if I get a Second Chance, I would do it right now.

BTSOL:

This book is lying in my drafts folder for more than six months now. If I get two full days, I can edit and complete the book. I do get time, but somehow, I am using it for blogging, cooking and all-ing works I do these days. Sometimes, I question myself, “Am I not a dedicated individual?” or “Do I lack the art of writing/editing 40K words book?” and I am blank.

Maybe, if given a #SecondChance, I can edit and complete the book right away.

IAMSARAV WEBSITE:

This website, I designed, is offline for more than a year now. I have put so much of hard work into it. Just because of a single website builder update, I messed up, all of it. I need to work on .php coding to fix it – my wife hates me if I spend time on designing – I have spent hours and hours already, so she requested me to first complete the book and then work on the website. So without completing task one, I cannot complete this one.

Maybe, if given a second #SecondChance, I can fix the issues and make this website online.

THE LETTER:

Okay, I admit, I will be the last person in the list, if Forbes decides to compile the list of people who manages time perfectly.

This letter, I would like to address as “THE LETTER” as it is written to a special person in my life, is yet to be posted to the recipient. Am I delaying it because I do not want to experience tears, or… well, I will leave the OR part now.

Maybe, if given a second #SecondChance, I will post “THE LETTER” to the intended recipient.

The above words are from my heart. No backspaces, no editions, just pure emotions.

This post is a part of the #SecondChance activity at BlogAdda in association with MaxLife Insurance.

NO FIKAR. CHAT QUIKR.

This post won 'Indi Happy Hours Voucher' in Get Quikr NXT! campaign organized by IndiBlogger in association with www.quikr.com.

Being a crazy mobile phone lover, I buy new phones once in two months, in exchange of month-old phones. “Exchange your old phones for NEW”, might sound good, but in reality, it was not.

The launch of Samsung Galaxy S4 attracted me to the extent that I was ready to exchange my Samsung Galaxy S3, but I do not wanted to exchange for a very less amount. Moreover, I did not trust any websites to sell my old phones, as I had a bad experience in the past.

That’s when my crush, Anshita, introduced me to Quikr.comsafest and fastest – for selling old items at the best price. The trust I had for her, made me sign up for Quikr.com and post an Ad to sell my old mobile phone. In less than an hour, I found a genuine customer, and sold him the mobile at a decent price. It made me happy. More than that, it made me trust Quikr.com, and I sold most of my mobile phones through Quikr.com.

Then a day came, when Zenfone 6 invited me to visit Quikr.com. At the same time, I got an invite from Anshita for a Coffee Date, which I cannot deny. She sounded romantic. I dressed up in her favourite jeans and white shirt of mine, and left to Café Coffee Day.

I reached almost an hour before the actual time. I was nervous. Might be, it was the effect of her tone. That was when I got a call from a buyer named Vikas. He asked many irrelevant questions about the phone for almost thirty minutes, and finally revealed that he was calling from Andhra Pradesh. I hung up the phone irritatingly.

My mind was upset, but on seeing the beautiful Anshita, my mood got uplifted. We went inside Café Coffee Day and took a corner seat. We ordered two cups of cappuccino - one is a belly of Italian espresso smoothened with steamed and foamed milk, topped with a deep layer of foam and the other is the original Italian drink.

I got a call from an unknown number. I hesitated to pick it up, but on Anshita’s acknowledgement, I picked up the call. It was from a buyer named Neha. She was enquiring about a Scooty Teenz Electric that she dreamt of buying. I reconfirmed the mobile number, also admitted that I did not post any such Ads, still she was reluctant to accept. I had to hang up the call in the middle, in order to escape from ruining my Coffee Date.

I smiled to feel better. Anshita, too, smiled, but she looked bit upset. The coffee turned cold by that time. We could not talk much, as I repeatedly received calls from Neha. Finally, I had to switch off my mobile. I took Anshita out for a ride, before dropping her at the hostel. The date was okay, but it did not turn out to be a special one. Might be, next time!

On the way back to home, I was thinking of the plus and minus of Quikr.com. How spammers and cheaters use good websites for their own good? That was when an idea came thundering down my mind! Why not Quikr.com introduce features like Chat, Verified Buyers and Sellers, Chat History, Number Privacy, etc. Because I prefer to chat with Buyers rather than talking over phone because of the above reasons: a. I do not want to waste time talking to a futile buyer. b. I do not want to waste time talking to a wrong buyer. c. I do not want to waste time talking to spammers.

They say, “Like-minded people think alike.” That I second. We have Quikr NXT now. NO FIKAR. CHAT QUIKR. It has features like “Number Privacy”, “Chat”, “Photo Sharing” and “Chat History” that will save your life for good.

Now you can enable privacy settings to your number, and can display/share your number, only if you feel comfortable with the buyer. With Photo Sharing, life become easy, and Chat History, will help you for all possible good reasons.

What are you waiting for? Logon to Quikr.com and sell your old stuffs now easily. NO FIKAR. CHAT QUIKR.


Happy Buying and Selling!

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